Questions (128)

When your spouse wants to...

When your spouse wants to pursue a major business or career shift, how do you help?

What’s the best approach to...

What’s the best approach to help a spouse improve without shaming them?

What steps help rebuild confidence...

What steps help rebuild confidence and safety after a major disappointment?

Do you think having a...

Do you think having a trusted mentor helps prevent problems?

When a spouse loses income...

When a spouse loses income or business slows down, what’s the best way to offer emotional and practical support?

Many couples interpret submission differently....

Many couples interpret submission differently. What does healthy submission and leadership look like to you today?

Some people believe transparency includes...

Some people believe transparency includes sharing passwords; others feel it’s unnecessary. What do you think strengthens trust?

Arguments happen in every marriage....

Arguments happen in every marriage. What conflict-resolution style works best for you—cooling off first, talking immediately, or seeking counseling?

Growing up in Nigeria, each...

Growing up in Nigeria, each tribe has its traditions. If you and your spouse come from different cultural backgrounds, how do you navigate expectations around roles, respect, family involvement, and daily habits?

Is emotional maturity essential to...

Is emotional maturity essential to you?

What actions show genuine respect?

What methods have worked for...

What methods have worked for you?

What strategies help you stay...

What strategies help you stay connected when life becomes overwhelming?

Money affects marriages deeply. How...

Money affects marriages deeply. How do you and your spouse discuss income, expenses, contributions, and expectations—especially with rising cost of living in Nigeria?

Some people are naturally quiet...

Some people are naturally quiet or withdrawn. If your spouse hardly opens up, how do you encourage deeper conversations without nagging or tension?

How do you maintain healthy...

How do you maintain healthy friendships without creating insecurity?