Questions (128)

What surprised you most after...

What surprised you most after getting married, and how did you adjust?

Do you and your spouse...

Do you and your spouse understand each other’s emotional preferences?

Do you think having a...

Do you think having a trusted mentor helps prevent problems?

If your spouse gets unnecessary...

If your spouse gets unnecessary attention from the opposite sex, how do you handle the feelings that arise?

Many couples interpret submission differently....

Many couples interpret submission differently. What does healthy submission and leadership look like to you today?

In many Nigerian families, people...

In many Nigerian families, people expect children immediately. How do you deal with pressure, comments, or insensitive questions?

Some people believe transparency includes...

Some people believe transparency includes sharing passwords; others feel it’s unnecessary. What do you think strengthens trust?

Is emotional maturity essential to...

Is emotional maturity essential to you?

What actions show genuine respect?

What methods have worked for...

What methods have worked for you?

Ladies, be honest: what do...

Ladies, be honest: what do you expect?

Some families in Nigeria have...

Some families in Nigeria have very strong influence over their children’s relationships. How do you draw healthy boundaries when your partner acts based on their family’s wishes more than yours?

What ways do you make...

What ways do you make each other feel seen and valued?

Beyond faithfulness, what actions show...

Beyond faithfulness, what actions show loyalty to you?

In Nigeria, supporting extended family...

In Nigeria, supporting extended family is common. How do you manage it as a couple?

What’s the best approach to...

What’s the best approach to help a spouse improve without shaming them?