Questions (128)

What level of effort is...

What level of effort is healthy?

How would you describe what...

How would you describe what marriage represents in your life, including your expectations, values, and the role you believe marriage should play in a family and society?

Being ignored hurts deeply. How...

Being ignored hurts deeply. How do you cope when your emotional or sexual needs are minimized?

In many homes, one partner...

In many homes, one partner carries the burden of initiation. How does this pattern make you feel, and have you discussed it openly?

Some families in Nigeria have...

Some families in Nigeria have very strong influence over their children’s relationships. How do you draw healthy boundaries when your partner acts based on their family’s wishes more than yours?

As work pressure, children, and...

As work pressure, children, and responsibilities increase, many couples notice changes in sexual frequency. How are you and your spouse handling this change?

In some cultures, parents still...

In some cultures, parents still influence or decide who their child dates. Does this help or harm relationships today?

Many women complain that men...

Many women complain that men love dating but fear committing. Is it economy, fear, or lack of readiness? I want to hear your genuine perspectives—especially from men.

Considering culture, finances, family pressure,...

Considering culture, finances, family pressure, and expectations, what wisdom would you share?

In Nigeria, supporting extended family...

In Nigeria, supporting extended family is common. How do you manage it as a couple?

What’s the best approach to...

What’s the best approach to help a spouse improve without shaming them?

How do you and your...

How do you and your spouse align if one is strict and the other is soft?

How do you create a...

How do you create a culture of accountability in your home?

Share one thing marriage taught...

Share one thing marriage taught you that you didn’t expect.

If your spouse gets unnecessary...

If your spouse gets unnecessary attention from the opposite sex, how do you handle the feelings that arise?

Life gets busy—children, work, responsibilities....

Life gets busy—children, work, responsibilities. How do you maintain intimacy, affection, and excitement in long-term Nigerian marriages?