Questions (128)

If your spouse is stressed,...

If your spouse is stressed, depressed, or overwhelmed, how do you help without making them feel weak?

Where is the line between...

Where is the line between privacy and secrecy?

How does praying together (or...

How does praying together (or individually) affect your union?

Looking back, what key signs...

Looking back, what key signs reassured you—and what signs should people watch out for?

Which financial arrangement works better...

Which financial arrangement works better for a healthy marriage, especially in Nigeria’s economy?

Life gets busy—children, work, responsibilities....

Life gets busy—children, work, responsibilities. How do you maintain intimacy, affection, and excitement in long-term Nigerian marriages?

Some cultures discourage open sexual...

Some cultures discourage open sexual conversations. Are you suppressing your needs because “it’s not proper”?

In many homes, one partner...

In many homes, one partner carries the burden of initiation. How does this pattern make you feel, and have you discussed it openly?

Is emotional maturity essential to...

Is emotional maturity essential to you?

What has your experience shown?

Does it help or ruin...

Does it help or ruin things?

Does attraction grow with time?

Is it fear of poverty...

Is it fear of poverty or cultural expectation?

What age difference is acceptable...

What age difference is acceptable in Nigerian society?

What methods have worked for...

What methods have worked for you?

Many people say: “He changed...

Many people say: “He changed after six months,” or “She pretended until she got comfortable.” Why does this happen, and how can we avoid it?