Questions (128)

In some cultures, parents still...

In some cultures, parents still influence or decide who their child dates. Does this help or harm relationships today?

If you love gifts and...

If you love gifts and your partner prefers words or actions, how do you bridge that gap?

Many women complain that men...

Many women complain that men love dating but fear committing. Is it economy, fear, or lack of readiness? I want to hear your genuine perspectives—especially from men.

People say “marry your friend,”...

People say “marry your friend,” but is friendship really the foundation of strong romantic relationships? What has your personal experience taught you?

Do tribal backgrounds still matter...

Do tribal backgrounds still matter when choosing who to date? Have you ever faced pressure because you were dating someone from a different tribe? What happened?

I’ve seen many relationships where...

I’ve seen many relationships where everything looks good, then suddenly one partner pulls away without warning. What are the deeper reasons behind this? Emotional fear? Family influence? Pressure from society? I’d love to hear your experiences.

What ways do you make...

What ways do you make each other feel seen and valued?

In Nigeria, supporting extended family...

In Nigeria, supporting extended family is common. How do you manage it as a couple?

How do you create a...

How do you create a culture of accountability in your home?

What little things do you...

What little things do you do daily to show love?

What surprised you most after...

What surprised you most after getting married, and how did you adjust?

Where is the balance between...

Where is the balance between transparency and oversharing?

Share the behaviors you believe...

Share the behaviors you believe can destroy a marriage if not addressed.

What’s the best approach to...

What’s the best approach to help a spouse improve without shaming them?

How do you handle online...

How do you handle online friendships, DMs, and exposure without causing insecurity?

What steps help rebuild confidence...

What steps help rebuild confidence and safety after a major disappointment?