Questions (128)

How do you maintain balance...

How do you maintain balance when your spouse relies too much on family opinions?

Do you think having a...

Do you think having a trusted mentor helps prevent problems?

If your spouse gets unnecessary...

If your spouse gets unnecessary attention from the opposite sex, how do you handle the feelings that arise?

Christmas, New Year, Easter, Sallah—how...

Christmas, New Year, Easter, Sallah—how do you balance both families’ expectations without offending anyone?

Living close to family can...

Living close to family can be helpful—or stressful. What has been your experience?

When a spouse loses income...

When a spouse loses income or business slows down, what’s the best way to offer emotional and practical support?

Many couples interpret submission differently....

Many couples interpret submission differently. What does healthy submission and leadership look like to you today?

In many Nigerian families, people...

In many Nigerian families, people expect children immediately. How do you deal with pressure, comments, or insensitive questions?

Does income difference affect respect,...

Does income difference affect respect, decision-making, or ego in your home? How do you ensure harmony regardless of who earns more?

Some people believe transparency includes...

Some people believe transparency includes sharing passwords; others feel it’s unnecessary. What do you think strengthens trust?

Arguments happen in every marriage....

Arguments happen in every marriage. What conflict-resolution style works best for you—cooling off first, talking immediately, or seeking counseling?

Money affects marriages deeply. How...

Money affects marriages deeply. How do you and your spouse discuss income, expenses, contributions, and expectations—especially with rising cost of living in Nigeria?

In many Nigerian homes, uncles,...

In many Nigerian homes, uncles, aunties, and in-laws love to “advise.” How much influence should extended family have in your marriage decisions, and how do you manage over-involvement respectfully?

Growing up in Nigeria, each...

Growing up in Nigeria, each tribe has its traditions. If you and your spouse come from different cultural backgrounds, how do you navigate expectations around roles, respect, family involvement, and daily habits?

How would you describe what...

How would you describe what marriage represents in your life, including your expectations, values, and the role you believe marriage should play in a family and society?

Many Nigerian couples endure quietly....

Many Nigerian couples endure quietly. Are unspoken sexual frustrations affecting your respect or affection for your partner?