Questions (128)

Many people say: “He changed...

Many people say: “He changed after six months,” or “She pretended until she got comfortable.” Why does this happen, and how can we avoid it?

People say “marry your friend,”...

People say “marry your friend,” but is friendship really the foundation of strong romantic relationships? What has your personal experience taught you?

What ways do you make...

What ways do you make each other feel seen and valued?

Beyond faithfulness, what actions show...

Beyond faithfulness, what actions show loyalty to you?

How do you handle online...

How do you handle online friendships, DMs, and exposure without causing insecurity?

How do you maintain balance...

How do you maintain balance when your spouse relies too much on family opinions?

Christmas, New Year, Easter, Sallah—how...

Christmas, New Year, Easter, Sallah—how do you balance both families’ expectations without offending anyone?

In many Nigerian families, people...

In many Nigerian families, people expect children immediately. How do you deal with pressure, comments, or insensitive questions?

Arguments happen in every marriage....

Arguments happen in every marriage. What conflict-resolution style works best for you—cooling off first, talking immediately, or seeking counseling?

Money affects marriages deeply. How...

Money affects marriages deeply. How do you and your spouse discuss income, expenses, contributions, and expectations—especially with rising cost of living in Nigeria?

Is emotional maturity essential to...

Is emotional maturity essential to you?

What are yours, and why?

How important is future vision...

How important is future vision in dating?

In Nigeria, some see it...

In Nigeria, some see it as rush; others say clarity is important. What’s your view?

In Nigeria, lifestyle differences can...

In Nigeria, lifestyle differences can create tension. Would you date someone from a different economic or social background?

In Nigeria today, many people—especially...

In Nigeria today, many people—especially women—say they can’t date someone who isn’t financially stable. Is this realistic or unfair? How do you personally balance love and financial expectations?